I should be an example for you to understand that the more attention we pay to others, not finding their faults or criticizing them, but doing things for others – small, small nice things. If you start doing for others, immediately you will be surprised. Your attention will sharpen. It will have a very great effect. Sahaja Yoga will spread through you and you will, yourself, be a very different person. You won’t criticize other Sahaja Yogis.... So first we must extend our attention outside, towards others, not towards ourselves. Then the same about our children, our house, our this, that. Just extend your attention outside. (7.04.1994)