We keep to our maryadas and we will become beautiful Sahaja Yogis, who will be congenial to others, who will be able to get others to us, who will be able to project an image of magnetic personalities. And this is what we have to do. If we try to show off in any way ... there is no need. Just be in the background. If you are very much in the background, just be in the foreground. Try to balance yourself. Try to watch yourself and guide yourself and tell yourself, "Become your own guru." Judge yourself, how far you are in the center, how far you are growing, how much growth have you achieved. Are you still attached to small things here and there? (12.07.1987)